We are not women

She supported him while he was broke, how could he cheat on her ?”

Well if her support is what made him rich, she should go support her next man and make him rich.

But no she can’t, because his success is more about him than her.

I’m in no way trying to undervalue a woman who supported a man during tough times.

But at the same time, I’m not going to overvalue her, which is what I see being done all the fucking time.

No woman is selflessly investing in a man who she doesn’t see potential in.

She saw greatness in him, and made a bet, and she happened to be right.

Great! Now you get taken care of and looked after financially.

He loves you, and prioritizes you.

You’re being rewarded.

But making it seem like him getting a little bit of pussy on the side is the ultimate act of betrayal, when he’s still committed to you and you’re still actively reaping the benefits of your investment, is dumb.

I’ll never agree to the idea of a man’s value and integrity being narrowed down to his capacity for sexual fidelity.

We are not women.