Men have a God given right to take more than one woman.
If you want to be polygamous as a man, it's because you have never known a woman so great she was able to penetrate your soul when you were at full strength to conquer you. So you view women as collectible, because none have ever been able to penetrate your soul. You are an unconquered man. And don't misunderstand me. I don't mean this as a compliment, but as a small tragedy (that you, most likely) perceive as a personal strength.
And I don't mean conquered in the sense that you are a stupid and weak man who can be enslaved by a woman, I mean in the sense that you are a ruthless and wise and capable man, and that a woman was great enough in all her beauty and virtue and obsession to pursue you and ensnare you in all her brilliance and hunger for you. I mean you've never known a woman great enough to make polygamy inherently unattractive to you. Never known a woman who would inspire you to transcend your own animal instincts through spirituality - and so you view monogamy as a type of inferiority, or something you accept begrudgingly when in truth sexual novelty is your highest desire - not any specific woman (even if you love your wife, you don't love her deeply or truly or profoundly enough, because she is not great enough to have spiritually ensnared you, because if she had, polygamy would not interest you) and you'd greater value exclusivity and concealing yourself from all facets of this world that could undermine your union.
Every man who is interested in polygamy is signalling this, and every woman who accepts it signals she is not great enough to singularly own the man she feels is good enough for her, and so must share him whilst longing to own him, twisting her own soul in the process through jealousy and competition in a twisted power game of false cooperation between her and the other women you play off against each other.
I suppose this is yet another thing I have to write about. I have too many things to write about.
Even the "favourite" woman is not good enough, because if she was good enough, there would be no other woman. Knowing she is the favourite is a small consolation for the fact that she has to share you. The true woman is greedily possessive. She has no tolerance for any other.
In her ego, every woman wants to think she is the best, that she is better than the other women.
But if that's true - why couldn't she make you give up polygamy?
She could threaten and scheme - but she could not INSPIRE TRUE DEVOTION.
So in reality? She's just not good enough.