Cheating doesn’t just happen — it follows a series of choices.

1. It began when she gave him access — sharing her number or social media behind your back.

2. Then came permission — specific times to talk or chat, again, without your knowledge.

3. Daily conversations followed, building a secret connection behind your back.

4. You were brought up — criticized, denied, or made to seem like the problem — behind your back.

5. Plans were made to meet. Money was sent, gifts delivered. She smiled. She felt seen.

6. The chats turned sexual. Some messages got deleted. Nudes may have been exchanged. Still all behind your back.

7. Another meeting was planned — this time, to sleep together. She looked forward to it. She wanted it.

8. They finally did it. And it didn’t stop there. Her attitude shifted. She became colder, distant, disrespectful. You began to question yourself. Maybe even blamed yourself.

But hear this:

Cheating wasn’t a mistake.
It was a decision — repeated, deliberate, and desired.